Who Cares?

Elderly Care - Time For Change?Does the failure of Southern Cross highlight our society’s failure to show enough care for our ageing relatives?

The Southern Cross care home operator has been forced to suspend its operations as its landlords have left the group en mass. This affects 752 homes and will affect, to some degree, all of its 31,000 elderly residents, some of whom may be forced to move as part of the restructuring.

Whilst the Government have assured residents that none will be left homeless, it begs the question, whose pocket did all the money raised, when Southern Cross sold the properties to their landlords, land up in and is it really prudent to leave the twilight years of our loved ones in the hands of profit making private companies?

Of course there are mitigating circumstances, there always are. Martin Green, chief executive of the English Community Care Association, said the collapse of Southern Cross showed there were serious problems with the funding of care in the independent sector.

“I think the Southern Cross issue which has come to a head today, is very much an issue that other providers are facing because of the levels of resource that they have to deliver care on,” he told BBC Radio 4’s You and Yours programme.

“Fees are a really big issue and we’ve had several years of nil increases, and of course we’ve had inflation rates running at 4-5%.”

David Rogers, chairman of the Local Government Association’s Community Wellbeing Board, said: “Councils take the welfare of care home residents extremely seriously and throughout this process that has always been their priority.”

“It’s greatly reassuring, and testament to the good work which has been going on behind the scenes and the resilience of the care home system, that a solution has been found which will hopefully avoid major upheaval for the vulnerable people involved.” (Source BBC News)

But are they missing the point? These people, many of whom have been forced by the Government rules on benefits, to sell their homes or pay for their care from their life-time savings. Where has the culture of caring for our families gone? Are we all too busy, or too lazy to look after our parents?

Time was, when there would be three generations living under one roof, all caring for each other and relying on themselves, rather than the state. That must now be the exception rather than the rule. Maybe it’s time to think about where our priorities lie, and whether, in the longer term, we would be better to get back to good ‘old fashioned’ family values.

Freeing The Caged Bird

Freeing The Caged Bird

There is no such thing as coincidence in Buddhism. I would therefore like to thank Jayne for putting this right under my nose, amongst a number of other good lessons, whether it was intentional or not …

Nichiren writes: “Myoho-renge-kyo is the Buddha nature of all living beings…. The Buddha nature that all these beings possess is called by the name Myoho-renge-kyo” (wnd, 131). Regarding how to manifest one’s innate Buddha nature, Nichiren explains: “When we revere Myoho-renge-kyo inherent in our own life as the object of devotion, the Buddha nature within us is summoned forth and manifested by our chanting of Nam-myoho-renge-kyo. This is what is meant by ‘Buddha.’ To illustrate, when a caged bird sings, birds who are flying in the sky are thereby summoned and gather around, and when the birds flying in the sky gather around, the bird in the cage strives to get out. When with our mouths we chant the Mystic Law, our Buddha nature, being summoned, will invariably emerge” (wnd, 887).

In Nichiren’s metaphor, our innate Buddha nature, whose name is Nam myoho renge kyo, is a bird trapped in the cage of ignorance. In other words, our deluded minds create this cage that imprisons our Buddha nature. But when we chant Nam myoho renge kyo to the Gohonzon, which expresses Nichiren’s enlightened life and the potential of all people, our dormant Buddha nature becomes activated.

The singing of the caged bird is our chanting, and the birds flying in the sky are the Buddha nature in our environment, particularly as it is expressed in the Gohonzon. Through our chanting, the Buddha nature within our lives and the Buddha nature inherent in the universe begin their dynamic interaction.

For Nichiren’s metaphor to work, however, it is necessary for the caged bird to recognize the birds in the sky as being its own kind. In other words, when we pray to the Gohonzon, rather than thinking of it as an external power or deity, we must think of it as the mirror image of our own Buddha nature. If the caged bird thinks of itself as an elephant, it is unlikely to give the slightest thought to flying.

Nichiren Buddhism clarifies that the teaching of the Buddha nature is a teaching of faith and practice. All people have it, but not many can believe in it. Furthermore, some of those who believe in their Buddha nature may not practice to manifest it, erroneously thinking-I’m already a Buddha, so I don’t have to do anything. One’s faith in the Buddha nature must be expressed in one’s actions to manifest it.

Those who see the universal Buddha nature of oneself and others, and work to awaken it in all people are already Buddhas, for such actions belong to none other than a Buddha. As we cultivate our inherent Buddha nature through our conviction and actions to manifest it no matter our circumstances, we begin to see it and experience it. In our everyday lives, seeing may be believing. But in the world of Buddhism, believing in the Buddha nature is the first step toward seeing it.

(from Living Buddhism – February 2005)

The Good, The Bad, And The Explanation

Good and BadBuddhism teaches that our lives are endowed with both good and bad aspects simultaneously. The human mind switches between ten individual conditions, The Ten Worlds, and as we know, each World contains the other nine. The lowest three Worlds are those of Hell, filled with suffering, Hunger, which is dominated by greed, and Animality, characterised by fear of the strong or powerful and contempt of the weak.

The two highest worlds are those of Bodhisattva and Buddhahood, states of mind in which people strive to help others to eliminate their suffering and attain happiness.

Good and bad, happiness and sadness exist together, they cannot be separated and are integral parts of life. In fact it could be said that to try to describe one without the other would be meaningless.

Buddhist practice cannot remove bad things from our life nor the sadness, but it can help us deal with them (Poison into Medicine), and by doing so, help us and those around us promote the good and the happy aspects.

Nam Myoho Renge Kyo.

A Sad Exit

Bradley WigginsToday’s stage of the Tour de France ended with a rather sweet and sour outcome. Mark Cavendish of HTC won the stage with a trademark storming finish, but British champion Bradley Wiggins sadly crashed out with a broken collar bone.

As a fanatical armchair pro-cycling fan, I feel very sorry for Wiggins, knowing that he has put in a huge amount training in preparation for this years Tour. Professional cyclists are a breed apart when it comes to sportsmen. The dedication needed to compete, day after day, at the highest level is unstinting and for such effort to come to an end in such a manner is a tragedy.

Wiggins was looking calm, collected and at his very best for the start of this years Tour. Having had a very public dressing down last year, he had pulled out all the stops to get himself in peak condition, and the determination was showing, with him well placed after the first few days.

Not only is it a painful way to leave the race, it also leaves his Sky teammates looking for a natural successor to lead the team.

We all know the feeling of disappointment of striving with all our heart to attain our goals, only to fall (in Bradley’s case, quite literally) short of the desired outcome.

Very sorry to see you go Wiggo, stay positive and make a full and speedy recovery. You have known the Heaven of winning, now you must deal with the Hell of dropping out. Treat those two imposters just the same, as Kipling wrote, and come back even stronger.

A Whole New Can Of Words

Good RiddanceHaving said how important reading is in the growth of the spirit yesterday, I was appalled to learn further details of the disgraceful actions of The News Of The World today. As citizens of the UK, we all rely on honest reporting to learn of the news from both home and abroad, though I have to say that it’s been many, many years since I read, let alone bought a tabloid rag.

Fortunately, with the rise of electronic media such as Facebook, Twitter and online sites like the BBC website, we have little or no need to read the drivel printed by Murdoch’s media empire. It is however important that his proposed takeover of BSkyB is, at the very least, put on hold while investigations into this phone hacking are properly concluded.

We all rely on our MPs and those in positions of power to be honest and to carry out their duties in a responsible manner. The news that journalists have been paying huge sums to the police, to gain confidential information, is very unsettling. Watching tonight’s Question Time brought these issues into sharp focus and I for one thought Hugh Grant talked a lot of sense in exposing the shortcomings of previous phone hacking investigations.

Nichiren Buddhism does not shackle us with sets of rules or lists of do’s and don’ts, but it does hold us to be accountable for each and every thought, action and deed. How much better would our society be if everyone was in such a position, and acted in a manner for which they were happy to be accountable.

It’s way past time that we all called for more accountability from those who seek to govern or act on our behalf. The very action of taking such positions should demand that these people act in a responsible way, with thought being given to the greater good, and not the greater reward for the individual in power. Clean up or clear out, we have had enough of the selfish, money grabbing leeches in society, it’s time we lived our lives for each other and not purely for ourselves.

Mind Reading

BooksReading is a dialogue with ourselves, it is self-reflection, which cultivates profound humanity. Reading is essential to our self development. It expands and enriches the personality like a seed that germinates after a long time and sends forth a multitude of blossom-laden branches.

People who can say of a book ‘this changed my life’ truly understand the meaning of inner happiness. Reading that sparks inner revolution is urgently needed to help us escape drowning in the rapidly advancing information society.

Reading is far more than simple intellectual ornamentation, it is a battle for the establishment and preservation of the self, a ceaseless challenge that keeps us young and vigorous.

Trust In Your Faith

Scaling ObstaclesImagine a person standing at the foot of a steep cliff, being unable to climb to the top. Suppose there is someone on the cliff edge who lowers a rope and says ‘If you take hold of the rope, I will pull you up to the cliff top’.

If the person at the foot of the cliff begins to doubt that the other has the strength to pull them up, or wonders if the rope is strong enough to hold their weight, they might refuse the offer. How then would they ever get to the top of the cliff.

Having faith in your mentor and in the strength of your Practice will see you scale the tallest obstacles.

The Lotus Sutra

The Lotus SutraThe Lotus Sutra has the drama of fighting for justice against evil. It has the warmth that comforts the weary. It has a vibrate pulsing courage that drives away fear.

It has a chorus of joy at attaining absolute freedom throughout past, present and future. It has the soaring flight of liberty. It has brilliant light, flowers, greenery, music paintings, vivid stories.

It offers unsurpassed lessons on psychology, the workings of the human heart, lessons on happiness and lessons on peace. It maps out the basic rules for good health.

But more than all of these, it awakens us to the universal truth that a change in our heart can transform everything.

Best Of Friends

Best Of FriendsWhen you are grappling with a tricky problem, good friends can sometimes offer an alternative view, some aspect that you may have over looked.

But the very best of friends can offer something more, they can tell you things you should hear, rather than those you want to hear. It might not be the easiest thing to find out, but it might may be the missing piece of the jigsaw

Now this issue is still being resolved, but the new perspective has clarified the argument.

Off to chant about things now I have a fuller picture, and turn this particular poison into medicine.

Nam Myoho Renge Kyo.

Be True To Yourself

LoveDaily life can seem all too drab and unexciting. Living itself can sometimes seem a strain, and a few of us unrealistically expect what joy we feel to last forever.

But when we fall in love, life seems filled with drama and excitement. We feel like the leading character in a film or a novel.

Sadly, if you get lost in love, just because you are bored or distracted, and consequently stray from the path you should be following, then love is nothing more than escapism.

Whilst you must always be true to yourself, remember that you must also be responsible for each and every action.

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