Two of the closest people in my life are struggling with almost impossible situations. They are in positions where it seems that whichever way they choose, they will lose. Whilst I am in no position to influence either of them directly, I would like to help them if I can.
To do so, I need a great deal of wisdom, more than I feel I have at my disposal. I have chanted and prayed for an answer, or even a snippet of an answer, that I might pass on, but nothing seems to come to me. I know that I need to keep chanting, that with time an answer will reveal itself, but in the meantime I have to watch the pain they are feeling, continue.
I have no training in being a therapist or a counsellor, and maybe being so close to these people is a hindrance rather than a help. Maybe I should suggest that they seek out the help of such a professional, maybe they already have done so, but that seems to be ducking the issue.
We all have situations for which we search and search for answers. I seem to be much better at solving my own problems, now I have my faith to fall back on. I know that the answers to their problems lie within their own hearts, so I might suggest that they start looking there.
At the end of the day, all I am seeking to do, is to relieve them of their unhappiness. I know that if they could gain the faith that I have found, the answers would come more easily. But as I have said before, you can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make it drink.

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