Heaven And Hell

Heaven And HellA man was offered the chance to visit Heaven and Hell. Upon entering Hell he was greeted by the sight of an infinitely long room filled with tables laden with the finest of foods, meat, fruit, wine and all manner of delicacies. But around the tables sat groups of starving people, crying out in their hunger. He realised that each person was holding a spoon, but the spoons were so long that they were unable to feed themselves.

He then went to Heaven and was surprised to see exactly the same scene. The same room was filled with the same tables, covered with the same food. But this time, around the tables sat groups of well fed, happy people. They too were holding spoons, the same length as those poor souls in Hell. The difference was that these people were feeding each other and so could eat as much as their hearts desired.

Here on Earth, that might just be the difference between our own personal Heaven or Hell. Helping others, in Buddhism, also helps us, indirectly, through the accumulation of positive karma. But whether you are Buddhist or not, helping others is the best way to make life better for everyone, and in this festive season, can give us all a wonderfully warm feeling.

Such A Laugh

Company Christmas PartyWhat a wheeze, the company Christmas bash, held in the Cumberland hotel, Bournemouth was everything, and more, that I expected this evening. Having never been a huge fan of taking taxis, nor getting blotto on corporate hospitality, I was one of the more sober ones tonight, and what fun!

Of course, with the company executives in attendance, people were on their best behaviour as the evening commenced. But as the time rolled on, and the wine, beer and spirits flowed, inhibitions were slowly eroded and a few home truths came to the surface.

We are not the largest company in the world, and we are still a little like a family run business, where everyone knows everyone else by their first names. There was mention made of the fact that all the executives sat together on one table, with comments about the wannabe’s fawning around them, and it all made for an entertaining spectacle as the evening wore on.

Not a drop of alcohol passed my lips all night, so being stone cold sober, I was in the perfect position to watch the fun and games. Not that there was too much to report, but people do say and do the funniest things when they get a bit squiffy. As far as I know, no videos or photos have made their way onto the social networking sites, yet, but it is a good feeling to be able to let, what little hair I have, down, whilst being in total control of my faculties.

I’m sure there will be a few tales told on Monday, but apart from me being more of an observer than a participant, none of them will be about me.

The Unity Of Body And Mind

Stay PositiveWe must never underestimate the power the mind has over our bodies. If we can remain positive, with high life-energy and in one of the higher worlds, not only will our bodies respond positively, but also those around us will feel more positive too. If we allow negativity to creep in the battle will be all the harder, and we will find that we do not inspire those who need our support to try that little bit harder to support themselves.

The Nichiren phrase for this connection between our body and mind is Shikishin-Funi. Two, but not two, not two, but two, meaning that they are separate, but cannot function alone.

[色心不二] (Jpn shikishin-funi )

Also, non-duality of body and mind. The principle that the two seemingly distinct phenomena of body, or the physical aspect of life, and mind, or its spiritual aspect, are essentially non-dual, being two integral phases of a single reality. One of the ten onenesses formulated by Miao-lo (711-782) in his Annotations on “The Profound Meaning of the Lotus Sutra.” In the Japanese term shikishin-funi, shiki means that which has form and colour, or physical existence, while shin means that which has neither form nor colour, or spiritual existence, such as the mind, heart, and soul. Funi is an abbreviation of nini-funi, which indicates “two (in phenomena) but not two (in essence).” This means that the material and the spiritual are two separate classes of phenomena, but non-dual and indivisible in essence, because they are both aspects of the same reality. In the above annotations, Miao-lo states that, from the viewpoints of the whole and its components, life at a single moment is the whole, while body and mind are its components. Neither body nor mind is a separate entity; there is not one without the other. They are inseparable components of life. In the Lotus Sutra, the principle of the ten factors of life represents the oneness of body and mind. The ten factors are listed in the “Expedient Means” (second) chapter of the sutra, where it states that the true aspect of all phenomena consists of “appearance, nature, entity, power, influence, internal cause, relation, latent effect, manifest effect, and their consistency from beginning to end.” On “The Profound Meaning” states: “Appearance exists only in what is material; nature exists only in what is spiritual. Entity, power, influence, and relation in principle combine both the material and the spiritual. Internal cause and latent effect are purely spiritual; manifest effect exists only in what is material.” The Record of the Orally Transmitted Teachings reads, “[Concerning the term dedication of one’s life ] ‘dedication’ refers to the element of physical form as it pertains to us, while ‘life’ refers to the element of mind as it pertains to us. But the ultimate teaching tells us that form and mind are not two.” – Taken from the SGI Dictionary of Buddhism

Not exactly easy to understand, but essential for us to prosper in these difficult times. By being positive, we give out positive energy to those around us. Whether we are in a difficult situation in our life, looking for a job, trying to make ends meet financially or just trying to grin and bear it in the face of seemingly unending bad news, being positive is the only way to win through.

The Perfect Gift

tbgamI know, I’m always going on about this brilliant book, but The Buddha, Geoff and Me is the perfect Christmas gift for the Buddhist in your life (if that isn’t an oxymoron).

An amazing, invigorating and enlightening story about a young man’s friendship with a Buddhist, who teaches him the basics of the religion and covers aspects of practice.

For anyone, interested in Buddhism (particularly Nichiren Buddhism) its teachings and practices, in most readable form, this book is a must read.

This book will transform your thinking, help you to control your mood (life states) and lead you towards a more meaningful life. Buy it here or listen to it in podcast form here.

I don’t think it is overstating the case, when I say that this book changed the course of my life forever. It relates Nichiren Buddhism to everyday life so well, and in such an understandable form, it should be required reading for all students, it would change the world.

Wow, What A Day !!!

SuccessDo you ever have one of those days, where everything you touch turns to gold? Well today has been just such a day. Not in terms of financial gain, but in terms of resolving problems and making great strides, all in the right direction. On the face of it, today could have been a disaster. I was the only IT professional in the office, Knobby No-Mates, all alone and left to face the oncoming hordes, and the date was 13/12/11 … rather spookily.

But in the event, it has been one of my best days for some considerable time. I had the mundane housekeeping tasks out of the way in short shrift, and that really set me up to get a handle on everything else that I needed to do. Every challenge was despatched with energy, and consummate ease, though I say so myself.

Even down to introductory con-calls to new contacts, in-depth discussions with clients, one of whom offered to be the fonder member of a working party on one of our major projects. So by the time I left the office, way after normal hours, I was buzzing with the successes of the day.

I’m not going to fool myself into thinking that it will last, these things have a habit of falling apart as fast as they appear, but I have enjoyed the feeling and will do my upmost to keep it going as long as I can. The trick to making the most of such a day, is to appreciate it for what it was, but not get hung up when it vanishes again. That is how to cope with life generally. Make the most of the good times, but not fretting over the not-so-good ones. At the end of the day, it all balances out, and having a decent average is what it is all about.

Victory From The Jaws Of Defeat

Chelsea FCOn a very wet and windy night in west London, my life-long team Chelsea have tonight snatched a fantastic victory from the jaws of what seemed, early on, a horrible defeat. Having gone a goal down, inside two minutes, to a wonderfully gifted Manchester City side, Chelsea clawed their way back into the game and drew level ten minutes before half time.

Manchester City, the only Premiership side to remain unbeaten until tonight, looked every part the league leaders in the first thirty minutes, but Chelsea stayed strong and gradually took the upper hand. Determination, as well as strength, skill and energy saw them push the Manchester side back into their own third for long stretches of the second half. Then, with a renewed vigour, Ramires sprinted onto a through ball, only to be fouled by Gael Clichy, who, having been earlier shown a yellow card, was sent off.

The game changed in the instant, with Chelsea pressing for a winner against the ten men of City. Having the lions share of possession, Chelsea attacked in wave after wave, and were finally rewarded when Julian Lescott handled a shot from Sturridge in the area, and were awarded a penalty.

Frank Lampard, who has been forced to sit out the last couple of games as a substitute, and who had come on only minutes earlier, kept his nerve and scored a priceless winner past the current England keeper Joe Harte.

So a victory for Chelsea, lifting them to third in the league. But more importantly a lesson, how to gain a victory through determination, through wisdom, courage and skill. A victory over the set back of going a goal down, and the reward for never giving up. I have a big smile on my face as I write this, but it is a good lesson for us all. When things go against us, we must dig deep, focus on our own abilities, use all our inner strength to go on, despite the odds, and triumph in the face of defeat.

More Effort, Less Pain

DeterminationAnother day of dealing with work issues, so it wasn’t a problem that it was cold and miserable outside. Of course I miss getting out on the bike, but it will still be there when the weather improves and the workload subsides. The best bit about getting stuck into a whole heap of work, is that it won’t be sitting there waiting for me in the morning.

Another nice thing was that I got to speak to one of our Canadian subscribers. He’s a major user of the software and has loads of ideas about how things should be and how they can be made more user friendly.

So a pleasant hour of work related banter and a whole bunch of ideas to run by the team in the morning. And that is quite enough for one day.

Keep On Keeping On

Grit Your TeethIt may be the weekend, but that doesn’t mean that we can take our foot off the software support pedal. As with most websites, our traffic is higher in the evenings and at the weekends, when people who work all week have the time to surf the web.

Fortunately, the winter weather makes it less disappointing to be stuck indoors and be tied to the PC. There is a real feeling of satisfaction in resolving issues for our clients. It’s also nice to get the ‘thank you’ emails dropping into my inbox as people appreciate that we are still working out of core hours.

There was a point earlier in the week, when the emails were coming in faster than we could respond to them. A real feeling that we were losing the battle, baling as fast as we could, with the water still rising fast. But the new version of the product has reversed the trend, with people writing in to thank us for our efforts and even offering to help.

So the moral of the story is to keep your head, keep on keeping on, and your efforts will see you through in the end. Naturally, this applies to all aspects of life, not just to software projects, so keep your chin up, grit your teeth and press on regardless, knowing that good things will come out of it in the end.

A Way Of Life

BuddhahoodAs you know, my Buddhist Practice is now a way of life. A routine of chanting Nam Myoho Renge Kyo and prayer, that I go through every day, a routine that also involves me writing this blog. But routine is also another word for boring, mundane or even hum-drum, so it’s important to keep in mind why we Practice.

We Practice for several reasons …

  • To raise our life-energy levels …

  • To chant for certain outcomes …

  • To move us along the road towards Buddhahood …

  • To give a stable anchor in our lives …

and there are many others, often different for every individual.

As a mere novice, I find that I can learn a little more each day Let’s face it, Buddhism has been around for well over two thousand years, so there’s plenty to learn about.. I can improve or seek to perfect my Practice and to maintain a more focussed attention to the subject of my chanting. I look forward to the feeling I get during and after Gongyo. I often find that I am quite warm when I finish chanting and in a really good mood, despite any problems I am facing.

I never cease to be amazed by the effectiveness of chanting either. To start with, the word coincidence came into my mind when I saw results, but not any more. But I do get surprised by the way the Universe solves the problems with which I have asked it to help. Not always the way I expected, and often in better, more subtle ways than I could have imagined.

So my Practice is a pleasure, not a chore. It’s something I enjoy and never something I feel I have to do. As Nichiren Daishonin said, ‘If you practice something, you must test it’s validity with the results you see’. In other words, if it doesn’t work, stop doing it. For me, it is still working wonders almost daily, and I truly believe the World would be a better place if more people were to discover those wonders.

Success At Last

HappinessHaving said how tough things were yesterday, I am delighted to relate that today had been a much more positive and happy day, with some great progress and success in many areas. Many of the issues raised over that last week have been addressed and resolved, and I have spoken personally to some of the most vehement detractors, reducing their blood pressure and mine, and getting them back onside.

It is all too easy to let pressure get the better of us. To let ourselves focus on the negatives, to the detriment of the positives in life. Be that at work, in our home life or wherever, this is a big mistake and we all need to redress the balance if we are to meet the challenges.

So with work back on track, albeit that there is still much to do, things are now moving in a positive direction, I feel more able to concentrate on the more important things in life. Charlotte is due to have her last scheduled radiotherapy session tomorrow, and apart from that being a success in it’s own right, is a great relief to her and all her family and friends.

When we look back to the beginning of the year, with the devastating news about her cancer, the worrying news about her pregnancy and the difficult choices that were ahead, it is wonderful to reach this point. It would have been all too easy for us to dive into a state of hopeless depression. But with Charlotte’s own strength and positivity and my own blossoming practice, coupled with the huge support from everyone, we find ourselves coming out of the shadows and into the bright sunshine of achievement, with a beautiful baby boy and with Charlotte well down the road to full recovery.

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