I Love Sundays

A wonderful eveningWhat a fantastic day!!! Sunday may well be the best day of the week, and today was a particularly good example. A nice lie-in, followed by gentle, concentrated Gongyo and then a warm, sunny day of pleasant variety. A little bit of work, so tomorrow morning isn’t the deluge of last week, some washing, some cricket, some football and cycling on the telly and a nice walk this evening, just perfect.

This evening, the sun was sinking slowly down behind the boat yard. It was still warm and the baby seagulls were mewing to be fed, so I took a slow stroll along the beach and along to Hamworthy park. There were still a number of families enjoying the seaside, people walking their dogs and others just sitting enjoying the view over to Brownsea island.

The view from the beach

Everyone I encountered was very convivial. It’s funny how the weather affects people’s mood. A nice warm, soft evening and everyone was in a nice warm, soft mood and keen to chat. A golden Labrador decided to join me on my walk, much to the angst of it’s owner, so I pointed him in the right direction and he trotted off.

The view towards Brownsea islandIt was the perfect day to live in the moment, take in every wonderful aspect, and make the most of the day. Maybe it was because I have a nice short week this week, I’m on holiday from Tuesday evening for a few days, or maybe it was just because it was such a nice day, after all the bad weather we had last week. Whatever the reason, I decided today, that I love Sundays.

A Goal Worth Striving For

Attaining BuddhahoodWhat does attaining Buddhahood mean for us? It does not mean that one day we wake up and find that we have suddenly turned into a Buddha and have become enlightened. In a sense, attaining Buddhahood means that we have securely set ourselves on a path, or orbit, of Buddhahood inherent in the Universe.

Rather than a final static destination, at which we arrive and reside, achieving enlightenment means firmly establishing the faith needed to keep advancing along the path of absolute, limitless happiness, without end.

Although my blog is dedicated to my own journey along this path, I know, in my heart, that even though I have made progress, I still have a long, long way to travel.

Being Yourself

Relationship IssuesWhen we find ourselves in stressful situations, we often find ourselves acting in ways which are both damaging and unhelpful. When relationships hit problems our hearts may rule our heads and we may find we do not recognise ourselves in the way we react.

Fortunately I am not talking of my own situation, rather that of a very close friend, but the signs are all evident. In the same way as we are unable to see our own eyelashes, because they are too close, my friend cannot see these signs, because they are too close to the situation.

From a Buddhist viewpoint, we may see these situations as a chance to learn, to turn poison into medicine. As Sensei says …

“Relationship problems are opportunities to grow and mature. Such problems can be character building if you don’t let them defeat you. That’s why it’s important not to isolate yourself. No one can exist apart from others. Remaining aloof from others cultivates selfishness, which accomplishes nothing.”

I know from experience that it is often easier to offer advice than to accept it. Offering advice, when it is not being accepted, requires a lot of wisdom, courage and compassion. But that is no excuse to throw in the towel. I will continue to ‘be there’ for my friend, listening when needed, being subjective, though supportive and chanting for the wisdom to offer advice to help them resolve their situation.

I think my initial advice should be, be true to your heart, be yourself and try, where possible, to see the bigger picture. Easy to say, not so easy to do, but well worth trying.

Thunderbolt And Lightening …

Dorset FloodsVery, very frightening … well not really, but the weather today was truly awesome. I’m not quite sure how much rain fell on Ringwood today, but it sounded like most of it fell on our office roof. Our quiet little stream, so calm and idyllic, turned into a raging torrent of chocolate coloured power.

Dorset Floods… Earlier this year

So much for the British summer. Mid August and all day today it looked and felt like November. Dark, cold and threatening, raindrops crashing into the swimming pool we call the office car park. Thunder and lightening crashed all around and meanwhile, just down the road in Bournemouth, people were being rescued from their cars that had become trapped in flash floods.

Earlier today … Dorset Floods

Being part of the Universe, these events should never surprise us. Nature has it’s own way of sending us messages, and today’s was delivered by loud hailer.

All Change

Change It This WayReading this today made me sit and think, I’m sure it will do the same for you.

The Nichiren Buddhist teaching of changing karma restores the original Buddhist emphasis on the role of present action changing negative karma. Furthermore, the Nichiren Buddhist concept of karma is unique because it focuses on the fundamental cause of negative karmic retribution and provides the concrete means to change that cause, instead of focusing on the ultimately unknowable negative causes accumulated over one’s infinite past.

Nichiren writes: “The Nirvana Sutra teaches the principle of lessening one’s karmic retribution. If one’s heavy karma from the past is not expiated within this lifetime, one must undergo the sufferings of hell in the future, but if one experiences extreme hardship in this life [because of the Lotus Sutra], the sufferings of hell will vanish instantly. And when one dies, one will obtain the blessings of the human and heavenly worlds, as well as those of the three vehicles and the one vehicle” (WND, 199).

In this passage, Nichiren teaches that our karmic retribution can “vanish instantly” rather than us having to undergo many lifetimes of austerities. In addition, he makes it clear that eradicating our karmic retribution is in itself the “blessing of the one vehicle”, the attainment of Buddhahood.

Chanting With a Fighting Spirit

Nichiren Buddhism teaches that the essential way to change karma is to chant Nam myoho renge kyo with confidence in all people’s potential for Buddhahood. In The Record of the Orally Transmitted Teachings, Nichiren states: “This word ‘belief ‘ is a sharp sword that cuts off fundamental darkness or ignorance… It is through the one word ‘belief ‘ that we are able to purchase the wisdom of the Buddhas of the three existences. That wisdom is Nam myoho renge kyo”.

When we chant Nam myoho renge kyo with the resolve to challenge our fundamental darkness, with confidence in the existence of the sun, we can quickly remove the clouds and reveal the sun. Once the sun of Buddhahood rises in our lives, all of our karmic suffering is reduced to seeming nonexistence. With Nam myoho renge kyo, Nichiren teaches, delusion is transformed into wisdom, unwholesome actions into wholesome actions, and suffering into a source of growth and genuine fulfilment. This transformation of life’s causation from delusion to suffering into wisdom to joy is the meaning of changing karma in Nichiren Buddhism. The key to this fundamental change in the chain of cause and effect within our lives is chanting Nam Myoho Renge Kyo with confidence, with a fighting spirit, creating powerful winds to blow away the dark clouds of delusion and reveal the sun of Buddhahood.

Never Disparaging and Soka Spirit

The Soka Spirit movement is the SGI-USA’s collective and individual efforts to challenge the distortion of Nichiren Buddhism, as seen in the Nichiren Shoshu priesthood, and encourage both self and others to awaken to life’s true potential.

The method and aim of Soka Spirit are the same as those of Never Disparaging, reconfirming people’s dignity through respecting their innate Buddhahood and helping them challenge their fundamental darkness. Both Soka Spirit and the actions of Never Disparaging aim to establish a humanistic religion by challenging authoritarianism, to establish respect for each person by challenging disrespect for ordinary believers perpetrated by religious authority. While the doctrinal importance of the Lotus Sutra is found in the “Expedient Means” and “Life Span” chapters, its importance in terms of Buddhist practice lies in “Never Disparaging,” the twentieth chapter. Nichiren, therefore, writes: “The heart of the Buddha’s lifetime of teachings is the Lotus Sutra, and the heart of the practice of the Lotus Sutra is found in the ‘Never Disparaging’ chapter. What does Bodhisattva Never Disparaging’s profound respect for people signify? The purpose of the appearance in this world of Shakyamuni Buddha, the lord of teachings, lies in his behaviour as a human being” (WND, 851-52).

Proclaiming respect for humanity in the abstract is easy, but to show sincere respect for the person confronting you is difficult, especially if the person is hostile. But this is exactly what Bodhisattva Never Disparaging did. In each person he met, he saw the Buddha nature and expressed his utmost respect through his words and behaviour. His practice, at the same time, was a direct challenge to the great authority and power of arrogant monks in an age of religious corruption.

In the end, respect triumphed over disrespect, as did the Buddha nature over the fundamental darkness. Never Disparaging’s negative karma gave way to the joy of living, and the name given to demean this nameless man became a name of honour in Buddhist history.

(excerpt from September 2005 Living Buddhism)

Priorities

Changed PrioritiesAs we are all aware, life consists of a series of problems or challenges as we prefer to call them. Sometimes they appear in sequence, one at a time, but sometimes they all catch the same bus and arrive en mass. This is when priorities have to kick in.

Today has been such a day, bucket loads of challenges arrived and it’s just not possible to deal with them all at once, so they have to be prioritised. Whilst it is very nice that our new website has lots of traffic, sales are up, and generally it has been very well received, it does generate a lot of work too.

But that’s the side of life that pays the bills, keeps the roof over our head and allows us to feed and clothe ourselves, but what about the more spiritual aspects? Well, although I chant about pretty much everything, having a job is really rather important. Without a job, there’s no money. Without money life gets very messy, very quickly, as I know to my own misfortune.

Even though my practice is the hub of my life, the spindle around which everything else revolves, sometimes it has to happen in the background. Being so busy is a blessing and a bore all at the same time, but this time work has to be the top priority.

What Is It About Mondays?

AnguishHaving had a very quiet Sunday, today has been like having a bucket of cold water thrown over me. Over fifty emails waiting in my inbox, our email system then deciding to have a long lunch hour and various other problems have meant that I feel like nothing really got done today.

Of course, it’s always busier on a Monday, with the weekend issues to deal with, but today has felt like swimming in treacle. Good job I have my practice to fall back on, poison into medicine and all that. Remembering back to how I used to be before Nichiren made me feel a lot better.

The day is nearly over, and everything is back on an even keel again. Nobody got eaten by bears and my inbox will be much less full in the morning. So it’s just a case of thinking happy thoughts and letting the waves of anguish lap gently against the solid foundations of calm and reason.

And just to put it all into perspective, I know from personal experience, that it is a lot better to have too much work to do, than have none at all. A little gratitude for the good things in life makes the bad things melt away, but it’s easy to say that now.

Tranquillity

TranquilityToday could not have been more different from yesterday. Other than by phone, I have had no contact with a single person, a day of pure tranquillity. There would have been a time when I would have been lonely, feel isolated and unhappy, but those days are long gone.

Every day starts with Gongyo and that sets me up for the rest of the day. Chanting clears my mind and boosts my life-energy and having Buddhism as the centre of my life puts everything into perspective. I would like to share the tranquillity I now feel with others, it is a very powerful feeling, and something that would benefit anyone.

Yesterday was a wonderful, if rather tiring day, today has been equally wonderful, restful and contemplative. Some people may feel that having days where, outwardly, you do nothing, is a little boring, sad even. But having time to yourself is a luxury, one for which many folks would give a great deal.

So now I’m rested, relaxed, and all ready to face the trials and tribulations of the coming week. I am off to London for meetings one day midweek and I’m also looking forward to having my broadband connection restored this week too. So a day very, very well spent.

Happy Families

Happy FamiliesWhat a brilliant day! The beautiful drive to Bristol, first thing in the morning, with amazing views made green and pleasant by the recent rains was quick and easy.

The day had a definite football theme to it. Following breakfast we went off to Longwell Green community centre for Jake’s football training. A little kick around with Zach was fun and Jake was proud to have scored three goals in his practice game.

Charlotte has started the second phase of her chemotherapy, and is looking very tired. Her hubby Rob, also looked pretty drawn, but he is a real star in the way he is keeping everything together. It’s really difficult to see your child looking tired and poorly, even knowing that the reason behind it is all for a very good cause. But it was wonderful to meet my new grandson, Oliver, and to see the how his birth has kept her positive and given a reason to dig deep and carry on.

Hannah and Stanley came round and it was fun to watch the way the boys interact together. They seem to understand each other, even though the little two aren’t even two yet. After lunch, Hannah took Zach for the afternoon, and Rob, Jake and I went off to pick up Barry to go the watch Bristol Rovers, so that Charlotte could have a restful afternoon.

It was my first visit to the Memorial ground, and although the result wasn’t what the Rovers fans had hoped for, it was a nice way to spend the afternoon. Following a few slices of pizza and a final kiss and cuddle with Charlotte and the boys, it was time to wend my way back to Poole, the end of a great day of happy families.

The Gift Of Freedom

The Gift Of FreedomYesterday we spoke of responsibility, individual responsibility, and how taking responsibility for your actions is a major part of moving your life forward towards your chosen goals. But responsibility is a gift, whether you realise it or not, and having responsibility for the actions you take is very precious.

Think about the millions of people around the world who dream of having such a gift. These people live under conditions where their lives are controlled by the regimes governing their countries. Because they have no control, they never know the gift of responsibility.

Even though there are often comments about our ‘Nanny State’, we live in one of the most liberal, most accepting countries in the world. With that freedom comes the responsibility to act in a manner that show wisdom, courage and compassion, failure to do so risks us all losing that most precious gift.

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