Welcoming Problems

We all know that we should welcome, if not exactly seek out problems, to test our practice.

Sometimes it is easy to see the benefits, sometimes it’s not and today has been one of those times.

I think I have been guilty of swinging the lead, in practice terms on my week off, and the results speak for themselves.

I’m back in the office tomorrow and I need to chant all the way to Ringwood to get myself into the right life-state.

Every Day – Another Little Test

Following a very nice day comprising, though not in order of niceness, getting my car serviced, eating croissants for breakfast, walking in the sunshine and going to our favourite Thai restaurant, there was a stern test of my practice stuck to the windscreen of my car.

Yes, a parking ticket, only the third I have been served in 55 years of this particular lifetime.

Not totally impressed with how I coped, but I’ve already paid it online and I’ve put it down experience, yet more poison into medicine.

As we all know, even Parking Wardens love their parents, partners and children, and have a portion of Buddhahood within them.

Namaste.

Good Things

Good things, they say, come to those who wait.

The good news is that it’s true and having waited months for a joyous reunion, my partner is home again.

When she left, back in July, my life went on hold for a while. But the suffering it caused made me seek a way to overcome it and I found Nichiren Buddhism as a result. A good case of poison into medicine if you will.

Now she is back, I am on a different path through life and we are both better for the change.

The wait was definitely worth it.

Why Suffering Can Be Good For Us

As I mentioned in a previous post, we can use our problems to make us stronger, by turning poison into medicine.

Nichiren Daishonin said that ‘from sickness arises the mind that seeks the way’ meaning that when we are in Hell, we are in exactly the right place to find our way out of the situation that is causing our grief.

The darker the Hell, the greater the motivation can be to take action to improve the situation.

We can all relate to this in one way or another. Imagine a situation or problem, that had to get worse and worse, so bad, before you took action to put it right.

Let’s use a perfect example, J.K. Rowling, you know, the author of the Harry Potter books. She was almost destitute when she started to write the first book, and maybe, though it is supposition, it was that dire position that gave her the life-force she needed to make a start. Her success took her from being on welfare to being a millionaire within five years.

By chanting, Nam Myoho Renge Kyo, we can raise our life-energy and that changes our life-state, making us feel better and more able to think rationally about the problems we need to solve.

So next time you are down, so down there is no way up, remember that you are in the perfect place to completely transform your life.

Testing My Practice

Nichiren Buddhism is not just about blind faith in the practice.

Nichiren Daishonin teaches us to always test our practice for successful results, a little like a scientist would do with his experiments.

If the practice isn’t working, we must modify our methods, learn more about perfecting the process, or we are wasting precious time and effort. There’s no point repeating the same thing, over and over, if the results are unsatisfactory, or at least improving over time.

So I found today to be a perfect day for testing whether my learning, chanting and awareness of self were having the desired effect. Namely to help me control my lifestate and make my mood more even, in the face of those day to day issues, good and bad, over which we have no control, but which affect our mood in some way.

Having spent half the night fixing problems with one of our company websites, caused by a person of great intellect who had hacked into the database to leave little messages everywhere, I was pretty tired.

Fortunately, being Sunday, I was able to have a lie-in, so I drew the blinds tight shut to keep the morning sunshine out and slept like a log. I do remember hearing the rain lashing the windows at some point, but I was snug and warm and didn’t think anything of it.

Imagine my ‘delight’, on rising around midday, to find a puddle of rainwater in the middle of the coffee table in my lounge and a damp patch on the ceiling above it.

Obviously it wasn’t the best start to the day, but to my surprise, I found that a situation that might have caused me to get angry, or a least spoiled the start of my day, turned into a simple test of my practice.

Nobody wants problems in their life, but Nichiren Daishonin teaches us that making use of these everyday problems or challenges is a way to strengthen your mind. Like changing poison into medicine, our problems help us increase our mental strength, like a weightlifter lifting ever heavier weights in order to increase his physical strength.

It wasn’t the toughest problem I’ll ever face, or even the only one I’ve faced today, but it did prove to me that my practice is working and that over time I will become even more capable of remaining on an ‘even keel’ when issues arise.

That has to be good for me and my happiness, but even more importantly the happiness of those around me.

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