Fate, God’s Will, Or Your Responsibility?

Sometimes in life we find ourselves in difficult or disappointing circumstances. The laws of Karma are universal, we get what we deserve, whether we recognise the causes or not, the effects speak for themselves.

We might feel sorry for ourselves, we may think it’s unfair, but we make the causes for the effects we experience day in, day out. Now you may be saying that it’s destiny, or coincidence, but that simply means you are delegating responsibility for your life to fate or a mystical figure whose existence can never be proven.

Why do we allow ourselves to be fooled? When we know the reason for events, we accept the situation and move on. When we don’t know (or remember) why something has happened, we waft it away with airy fairy excuses, like fate or God’s will.

I’ve been through the mill in the last year or so. Failed relationships, jobs losses, even death in the family. More than enough to make me feel, at times, enough is enough. But when I sit and think things through, at the bottom of every disaster, is a cause of my own making.

So I hold my hand up, I’m culpable, in part at the very least, and my chanting, prayer and meditation are the tools I am using to start to put things right.

You might be thinking this doesn’t apply in your case, but you are wrong. Accept your own responsibility and start making the causes to get the effects you would like to see.

Bad Apples?

Ok, let’s talk Collective Karma.

The BBC News is full of reports about a group of men being held for being suspected of terrorist activities.

Whilst it is easy to jump to conclusions, another bunch of Muslin terrorists, send them all home, them and us, all that rubbish, we need to remember that they are innocent until proven guilty. Even if they are guilty, don’t forget, they are a tiny minority of the UK Muslim community.

Personally, I feel it is wrong that the media have deemed it necessary to divulge the names and addresses of the accused. What purpose does that serve, other than to make their homes and families, who probably know nothing of their alleged acts, targets for attack by radical elements from our side?

Do you see what I mean? I remember, back in the seventies, when the IRA were blowing up pubs in Birmingham. I was working with an Irish guy, a really nice chap, who was picked on by some people, just because he had an Irish accent. He was totally innocent of any involvement with the bombings, but he spoke differently to us.

From a Buddhist perspective, terrorism is the result of collective Karma, built up over hundreds of years. Events such as The Crusades against The Saracens in the Middle Ages and a couple of little Middle East wars, not to mention Afghanistan. It’s important to remember that the result of Karma is not a punishment, it’s just the outcome of the causes we make. We’ve made those causes, currently and historically, and we are the seeing the effects.

If we ever want to see the end to acts of terrorism, of wars and to live in a world where people can live in harmony, we need to make causes for that. So think about how things really are, don’t jump to conclusions and smile at the owner when you pop into the local Asian owned shop for your last minute loaf or pint of milk.

Be Grateful

We all have the ability to feel sorry for ourselves. Sometimes it seems we have problem after problem, and think the world is against us.

But we can all take a step back and look at our situation compared to others, and be honest enough to see that there are other people in much worse circumstances.

In Buddhist terms, the effects in our lives are caused by the causes we make along our way, it’s called Karma. Whilst it is difficult sometimes, to reconcile ourselves with the fact that we have, in some way caused our own problems, it is important to remember that we are not being punished.

So when you have had enough of your troubles, and are ready to throw in the towel, just take time to look around and realise that there is always someone worse off somewhere.lotus

Be grateful for what you have, and concentrate on making causes for the effects you need to improve the situation. To do anything else is to lack Courage and Wisdom and that doesn’t help anyone, least of all yourself.

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